Hard times

                                   MY FIRST LESSON THIS YEAR

The first lesson I've learned in this year is that life won't be easy. I really learned it the hard way. There are two options for you if you are doing something, either you can mimic it or you can do it correctly.

If you are doing it correctly the result will be a good one but if you mimicking it you'll have to do it again and again or you won't get the satisfaction.

My story of how I learned it. I started doing workout about 6 months and I thought I was doing great until yesterday. I was able to take pushups so easily and I was so proud of it. But, yesterday when I was taking pushups my brother noticed that I was doing it wrong, really wrong. He taught me how to do it. Well, I couldn't take even one. So, you can imagine my fitness level (I guess you could say).

This incident struck me so hard and I felt really sad. I felt so terrible and felt bad about myself (This is not the only thing that made me really sad and terrible about myself there were others but I was pushing them off)but then I thought it is so bad if I don't face my issues then there is no point in being a human being. We, humans, are meant to fail and get back up and fail again until we win.

So, I've learned that life won't be easy.  I can either make it easy by working hard or I can live by pushing off my problems and live a worried, sad life. I really understand now that the only weapon you want to fight anything is you. We have to trust in ourselves to win any challenge.

Whatever happens, never let yourself down.  You might won't be able to tackle it today or tomorrow or may in several years but you will tackle it because you are learning your mistake in each of those failures.

This is a good dialogue from a movie that says 'imagine when you hit a rock one time it didn't break but on the 50 trial it did break and does it means that those 49 trials were useless?'. You may not be able to find the result in the first few trails or on the 108th trail but you will win in the 200th trail. It may hard to be patient and to concentrate on or all those times but if you really want the result you can and you will do it. You are failing each time but you are actually learning from each failure and correcting it to win it.

Don't give up on the road of these adventures. The journey itself is the one that makes us stronger and more talented (and is the more exciting one)only then will we be able to enjoy our destination.